{"id":429,"date":"2025-05-01T19:02:37","date_gmt":"2025-05-01T19:02:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/luunfiltered.com\/?p=429"},"modified":"2025-05-01T19:02:38","modified_gmt":"2025-05-01T19:02:38","slug":"being-sensible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/luunfiltered.com\/index.php\/2025\/05\/01\/being-sensible\/","title":{"rendered":"Being sensible"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>is such<br>a great asset<br>in life,<br>really.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being sensible<br>also happens<br>to be the<br>antithesis<br>of my default<br>temperament.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How interesting<br>it is to meet<br>people, exactly<br>where<br>they are\u2026<br>Rather than<br>where your preconceived<br>notions may<br>have<br>parked them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People,<br>after all, are<br>complex beings.<br>And we all<br>long<br>for love, and belonging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what happens<br>when people shift<br>between these<br>informal groupings,<br>changing gears<br>from love to belonging?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For I believe that<br>loving someone means,<br>that they are<br>forever there,<br>even if only in the<br>darkest corner<br>of your heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love changes<br>everything, though,<br>to quote an eighties pop<br>band, even itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What then?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So people get to<br>love you,<br>differently,<br>and you them.<br>And people<br>you\u2019ve loved also<br>get a VIP pass<br>to the belonging<br>category,<br>don\u2019t they?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Windows 3.1<br>has been<br>superceded by<br>many new versions,<br>and upgrades,<br>yet some humans<br>nostalgically<br>hanker<br>for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So where does<br>this leave<br>me, and my<br>fragile heart?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Exactly where<br>it should be,<br>me thinks:<br>open,<br>experiencing life,<br>in all its complexities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>~Lu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>is sucha great assetin life,really. 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