Category: Appreciation

  • Post 100

    Dear Reader, thank you for dipping in here with me. This water  has helped quench my soul. Sometimes  tiny droplets, often raging oceans, and everything  in between. Thank you, for participating  here, ingesting delicate sips or guzzling gigantic bucketfuls, despite the consequences. So jump aboard, and let’s continue paddling through the next 100 pauses on…

  • Is it beautiful

    where you are? Have you built a life that feeds your soul and spirit? Is there music, and laughter, and kind  words? Is there time to exhale and relax and just be? Is there great food, and parties, and fun? Is there birdsong,  and moody clouds,  and rainy  duvet days? Is there good chocolate, and…

  • I had to pee by myself, and other atrocities

    Isn’t it funny how you can only really miss someone, once they are not there? Only, it’s not funny at all! These random happiness gaps  that special people leave in your life, albeit temporarily, can be super  inconvenient at best, and quite devastating at worst. So today, know that there is a you-shaped hole in…

  • We are

    built for kinship, for connection. To be with good people, who get us. And people who  have seen us live, and love us anyway. People who share the same thread we do. Who have seen similar demons, and have tried to hide under the same beds. They are us, and we are them. And there…

  • The proof

    Dear One, is in the doing. There’s lots to be said for research, and reading what others  have done. There’s also being strategic, and plotting and defining large structures and entire campaigns before doing any of the well, actual doing. Remember:  experiments work. As does changing  course mid-stream based on data, experience and feedback, once…

  • Do you

    have a list? Of the things you like, love and adore. And also of the things that aren’t  things. List making can be cathartic, it can also be revealing and scary. It does bring a certain order to the world, though. For there’s  profound beauty in  naming stuff well. So today, spend a little time…

  • She is

    the gun at a  knife fight. Japanese whiskey, on the rocks, with slices  of ginger and lime. Your secret anime hidden in a history  book, Joan Jet and Joy Division, colliding. Soft doe eyes, wearing  a black leather harness and stiletto fuck-off boots. She’s gentle spring rain, on a field near Chernobyl. She is the…

  • Secretly

    I love it when you tell me what to do. Me, a grown woman with a house, and a bond, and a dog, and a serious job. Why is this? And how can it  be so? It’s all  in the telling, or rather, the place  that the telling is from. It’s a place of deep…

  • So you

    surprised me today, and in a very good  way. And I realised that this very pattern  is likely to repeat itself for as long as we both shall live. Your magic unlikely to dim, your tender heart pure. And again I stand in awe of the wonder of  you. ~Lu

  • The Morrigan

    rises for each of us. Her wings spread wide, shiny black, her purpose clear. She is here for the  end. The final  battle to be won, by her, as she  takes that  precious  thing that most fear. She is indeed here for you, and more  specifically, your one precious  life. So look out for her,…